{"id":65,"date":"2026-01-10T02:25:14","date_gmt":"2026-01-10T02:25:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/prodigalpathways.com\/?page_id=65"},"modified":"2026-01-10T03:12:57","modified_gmt":"2026-01-10T03:12:57","slug":"day-4-you-dont-have-to-earn-staying","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/prodigalpathways.com\/?page_id=65","title":{"rendered":"Day 4 \u2014 You Don\u2019t Have to Earn Staying"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Day 4 \u2014 You Don\u2019t Have to Earn Staying<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Devotional<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Somewhere along the way, you learned this rule:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love lasts only if I perform.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So you became helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or successful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or agreeable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or invisible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hear Me clearly now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I do not stay because you do well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I stay because I choose you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You cannot impress Me into remaining.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And you cannot disappoint Me into leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I do not withdraw when you struggle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I do not pull away when you rest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belonging was never something you earned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was something I gave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t have to audition here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t have to prove your value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today, just notice this question\u2014no pressure to answer it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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